Munazza Siddique

Are you familiar with the term ” The Art Of Connection” ? What if I show you different way of looking at it. Let’s dive in;

In order to connect with anyone or anything; the first thing you have to do is to connect with yourself. If you start loving yourself you will see, you don’t have to put any efforts to connect with others, more and more people will try and connect with you. The more you love yourself, you will attract more positive people towards you.

Loving yourself is not important because you need more people in your life but for your own positive growth and emotional independency. When you start falling for the one who is in the mirror, that will be a day you will enter into completely different world.

Imagine, If someone love you unconditionally and fall for you everyday throughout lifetime.

Don’t you want that ?

Don’t you want someone who can protect you and trust you and make you happy every moment ?

But Unfortunately, It is a risky game. And is there any guarantee, for the feelings of that person will never change or disappear?

What if I say there is one person who can give you all these things and never betray. Yes, you guessed it right.

It’s you.

The question is how will one can love themself ?

Well ! It is not that difficult. However, definitely a time consuming process.

Everyone have a image of there future life partner, a dream person to whom you have never seen in reality. I am sure you have one too, somewhere in your head and you are still hoping to meet that person in real life. How about you became identical to that person.

Let say, your dream person is good at fighting who can fight for you anywhere with anyone. Work on your physical strength and next time you are in danger, you will not scream for help or get scared but fight. And that will be the first time you will fall in love with you.

What other quality your dream person have ? Taking you out for shopping time and again with saying, you spend so much. Good ! Now this is the time for you to earn more at least enough for you to go out for shopping not only for you but for your loved ones too.

Make a list of qualities which your imaginary person have and become that person. The more identical you become to that person, more people you will attract. Because as a human being all of us carve for that same person.

Let me tell you the qualities of my dream person.

• Who can protect me.
• Who can love me.
• To whom I can trust.
• Who will trust me blindly. A person who never doubt on me.
• Who is handsomely cute.
• Who will never break my trust.
• Who will make his priority.
• Who will listen attentively. Every word come out of my mouth will matter to him.
• Who will never ignore me.
• Who will never overlook my efforts.
• Who will appreciate.
• Who will acknowledge.
• Who will never make me cry.
• Who will respect me.
• Who will never insult me.
• Who will never abuse me.
• Who will never hit me.
• Who will never make fun of my weakness.
• Who will never use me for his benefit.
• Who will manipulate me.

And List goes on an on and I know your dream person is almost same as mine. I Know my list is extremely long but you can make your own and try and become that person not only to yourself but to everyone around you and you will see you have become a magnet who can effortlessly attract everyone around you. Because all of us crave for the same person.

when you become that person, everyone around you want to connect and keep you by their side. Not because you are beautiful but Because you are that person who they have been looking for. A person who is no harm to them. A person to whom they can trust.

Don’t Think you can’t do it, you can and you will.

“Just take baby step at a time and you will be there in no time”.

Thanks for staying till end I appreciate the efforts and time you gave me from your busy schedule.

Next time when you come here I want you to become that dream person who everyone wants to connect with.